Olivia Munn (Modest Is Hottest)

Olivia Munn. We all know who Olivia Munn is right? Rated number two on Maxims Hot 100. You may not know her for her acting, her comedy skit or her writing, but who could overlook a girl that hot? Most men would falter in any contest to look away. She's absolutely beautiful, she's certainly your type, and hell she's almost naked.

A girl this hot, in a pose as provocative as this, with such little clothing on. Its hard not to stare.

Girls Wait! Don't leave!! This is not an article intended for Maxim!

Guys lets get serious. If you could marry Olivia Munn, would you? Would you take her to be your wife, have your children, and grow old with her?

I know I wouldn't. What's wrong with Olivia Munn? Probably nothing on the outside, but there is something huge missing on the inside.

Modesty.

Olivia Munn has no respect for modesty. She is gorgeous yes, but would I trust a woman like that with the hearts of my children. Hell No! This is huge guys! We all need to understand, that our children will be shaped and molded by their mothers in more ways than we can comprehend. Do you want your daughter to grow up and do things like this? How would you feel? I would feel very disappointed and I would consider myself a failed parent to have a child that cannot respect their body and feels a need to show off their body on every possible occasion.

I want a hot girl. Don't get me wrong. As shallow as that may sound, I am looking for a physically attractive woman, but not one that doesn't appreciate the sacrality of their own body.

Take a look at that! Olivia Munn has covered up most of her body, and is still beautiful. It doesn't take provocative clothing to look good. I understand that no one would go in public dressed like the first picture, but it isn't out of the ordinary for girls to show off a ton of inappropriate skin in public.

Cover up ladies! 

I'm sick of hearing girls complain about their troubled relationships when in reality, the reason your boyfriend is a douchebag, is because you don't respect yourself. Do you really think your going to find prince charming if you don't respect your body? When girls dress provocatively, they are attracting guys that have sexual intentions in mind.

When girls dress modestly, they are more likely to attract less creeps, and more likely to attract quality guys that are more interested in who they are than what's underneath.

...but seriously Olivia Munn is HOT!

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Courageous

I am awestruck by this powerful movie. If you haven't already, you need to go see the movie Courageous. It is a great christian movie, which some people may not be interested in, but it does a great job of communicating so much beautiful wisdom, about family, friendship, and christianity that I truly believe everyone should see it. Every man at least.

The movie identifies some statistics within the dialogue that helps to draw attention to the lack of leadership that so many families have due to weak fathers.

Here are a few that I found after a quick Google search:

-Young men who grow up without a father are twice as likely to end up in jail at some point in their life.
-63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes
-71% of all high school dropouts are from fatherless homes

These are huge numbers, about very serious topics.

If you would like to take a look at a few more you can check out this link:
http://fatherhood.about.com/od/fathersrights/a/fatherless_children.htm

The facts do not lie. 

Any idiot can have a child. It's all about stepping up to the plate and being there.

Something that I have heard several times over the years is that
"Ninety percent of being a father is just showing up"

I'm not trying to belittle any fathers out there who may be reading this, I know that being a dad must be hard beyond my comprehension, but I think being there for your children is a good start. So many men are too selfish to put in the time that it takes to raise a child.

Any man without a strong relationship with their children is not only missing out, but depriving that child of so much more than they can imagine.

So this is a call to all men reading this.

Go watch Courageous!

..and try not to cry.


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Cut The Drama

Why haven't I posted for the last few days. Two reasons.
1. I have been super busy
2. I haven't felt inspired

Recently, some events in my life have changed my level of inspiration and my level of motivation. I am not a fan of people airing their dirty laundry on the internet so I won't be going in to detail, but I will reflect on what I have learned and hopefully can share a few things that, if applied to your own life, could drastically change how you interact with people.

Is confrontation always necessary? I have been fighting with this question for about two days now. If some one wrongs you, is it always necessary to confront them?

Please do not be confused about how I ask this question. I do not have a problem confronting people.

Confrontation does not intimidate me. 

What I'm trying to avoid here, is useless drama.

After several google searches, I am still left empty handed. The only information people have to provide on the internet about confrontation is how to overcome a fear on confrontation. But what about the people that do not fear it, but do not know if a situation requires confrontation?

If you are the type of person who confronts people too often, your a drama queen. You are searching for the fight and are most likely causing more problems than you are solving.

So I am in search of a happy medium.

After talking to my mother about confrontation, I have taken notes and have tried to build some tips can guide people in their decision.

We must ask ourselves a series of questions:

What are you trying to achieve? - Take a look at what exactly you are trying to achieve through confrontation. If you are trying to hurt someone's feelings, confrontation is unnecessary, and an immature reaction to whatever you may be dealing with. If your goal is productive to a healthy relationship, then confrontation may be necessary.

Who are you confronting? - It is important to look at who you are confronting because of the obvious conclusion that they may not care what you have to say. If some one is important to you, and they value you equally, then confrontation can improve the relation between you. Take a look at how well you know the person, and how you value them.

Will confrontation help you reach your goal - If someone has stolen from you, and you are sure about it, yes confrontation may help you get your stuff back If someone has hurt you, and you want to continue to have a relationship with that person, then they need to know. If someone has wronged you and you no longer want to associate yourself with them, then why confront them? It will only cause more stress for yourself.

Sometimes confrontation is not worth it. It can cause stress for yourself and unless there is a desired, and honorable result that can be achieved through confrontation, then avoid the unneeded stress.

Lastly I would like to lay down a few rules for confrontation that we all should follow.

Privacy - Confrontation should always be done in private. Facebook is not an acceptable place to confront someone. This is only asking for problems and attention.

Face to face - Your body language and tone convey more than you may think. Something said over the phone or over text may sound way different than if done in person.

With love - If you have a legitimate reason to confront someone, it should be to better a relationship with that person, and then confrontation should only be done in love, not anger, not spite.

After a little soul searching and after receiving a little guidance, I have come to the conclusion that I will not be confronting the person that I believe has wronged me. I do not wish to continue my relationship with that person and confrontation would only cause trouble.

What do you think?
Any other rules for confrontation that I may have missed?

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